A SEX THERAPIST’S STORIES
A Sex Therapist’s Manual ($24.95) contains, among its other clinical and educational material, 10 stories that Dr. Birch had told over many years, finding them useful in making a point, reframing an idea, or offering an interpretation. These stories have become quite popular and, per many requests, have been printed separately for those wishing to buy the stories (or metaphors) without having to purchase the entire manual.
With the purchase of this collection of 10 stories and metaphors comes unconditional permission to run multiple copies as needed in a clinical practice or education setting. Its loose spiral binding allows the pages of this manual to be laid flat on a copier. Some clinicians have copied an appropriate story and have then given it to clients or couples as "homework assignments." The instructions were to take the story home to discuss its meaning and to discover how it might apply to them. Other clinicians have had their clients or couples read an appropriate story (or have read the story to them) in the office and have then processed the message and implications during the same session. Obviously, after a few tellings, most clinicians begin retelling these stories from memory and, perhaps, with their own creative therapeutic revisions.
Funs stories with a lesson should not be limited to a practitioner's office or university classroom. At the low cost of only $5.95, anyone can affort these interesting and informative tales.
The stories:
Carrying Water from the Well
is a short story that reminds men that infrequent ejaculation will markedly contribute to the rapid loss of ejaculatory control.The Eager Young Fireman
is a metaphor that frames rapid ejaculation as the consequence of a high level of excitement and, with this intense arousal, the failure to anticipate the point of ejaculatory inevitability.The Sexy Woman from Saturn
tell the story of a man who experiences physical discomfort during his attempt to satisfy his beautiful and responsive partner - and then turns it around to help understand his partner’s dyspareunia (painful intercourse).A Hunger for Sex
draws a parallel between an appetite for food and an appetite for sex, emphasizing the difference between levels of sexual desire among people with regard to this biological need.The California Story
addresses a major problem in long term relationships in which the goal of mechanical intercourse has overshadowed the sensual process of the loving journey.Tale of Two Golfers
is an attempt to give a message in a manner that competitive men might understand so that they might begin to understand the difference between being goal-focused and staying process-oriented.The Shocking Story of a Laboratory Rat
is a behaviorist’s quasi-scientific recounting of a laboratory experiment that may or may not have ever happened, but explains how anxiety can initiate and maintain avoidance behavior.Mother Nature’s Mandates further highlights the predictability of sexual failure in the wake of performance anxiety.
Of Rocks and Roses is a story composed to assist a couple with communication problems understand how they can love each other and believe that they are showing it, but end up feeling unloved and being told they are unloving.
The Sad Tale of a Stubborn Robin is my retelling of an old story I have told to defuse a situation in which a client’s feelings were hurt by one of my well-intended interventions. The moral of this story is that there are times when someone who cares seems to be dumping on your, but they are doing so for your own well-being.
The 10 stories are contained within the Sex Therapist’s Manual ($24.95), but can now be purchase as a separate small collection. As with the larger manual, the stories are in a spiral binding so that pages will lay flat on a copier for easy (and unlimited) duplication.
This collection, A Sex Therapist’s Stories, is available as a print-on-demand spiral-bound book for $6.95 plus postage and handling.
The stories can also be ordered as a .pdf downloadable file, for $6.00 and there is no postage.
CLINICAL ASSESSMENT QUESTIONNAIRES
The clinical assessment *questionnaires
contained with A Sex Therapist’ Manual
are now available on a cd disk.
Questionnaires included:
Sexual Desire Inventory
- Male and Female FormsErectile Concerns Questionnaire
Rapid Ejaculation Assessment
Questionnaire for Female Orgasmic Concerns
Dyspareunia Questionnaire (with printed *interpretation guide)
Pain: Impact on Sexuality Questionnaire - Male and Female Forms
Relationship Satisfaction Assessment
* The questionnaires and the Dyspareunia Interpretation Guide have been developed in a clinical practice and have not been shown statistically to be reliable or valid. Lack of research in their use does not diminish their clinical usefulness in the hands of a skilled diagnostician with a knowledge of male and female sexual function and dysfunction.
Order this cd disk with interpretation guide for $8.95 plus postage and handling.
The stories can also be ordered on a CD, for $8.95 plus postage.
Imagine 8 women of various ages sitting and talking together at a weekend sexuality workshop. Of all their options, these women decided to participate in the group just for woman . . . and the topic, "My Introduction to Cunnilingus." Listen in as they talk of there early memories, their early preconceptions, their early experiences and their early surprises. In a 15 page collection, each woman takes her turn to tell her story. WHY SOME WOMEN DO NOT LIKE RECEIVING CUNNILINGUS
A Sexologist Looks for Reasons
It's called a lot of things, eating at the Y, tonguing the toco, eating a box lunch or hair pie. It is affectionately called eating pussy by those who love the aroma and taste of a woman's vulva. Cunnilingus is known by many terms, but some women will call it dirty, yucky, disguisting, perverted, or even sinful. There is not a simple answer to the question of why some are so turned off to an activity that most women find exquisitely pleasurable and uniquely effective in producing orgasms.Sexologist Robert W. Birch, Ph.D., looks at this question of why, and attempts to dispel the myths and misunderstands that are at the basis of this aversion. You can learn his thoughts in his three page article titled YOU WANT TO DO WHAT TO ME? Why some women do not like being eaten.
Buy the article as an e-mail attachment in .pdf format for only $1.00.
Since this e-article will download as a .pdf file, You will need the Acrobat Reader program on your computer in order to read this file or any .pdf file. If you do not already have the Adobe Acrobat reader, you can download the program FREE.
Buy the article in print and it will be mailed to you for only $2.00 and that includes First Class postage.
Dr. Bob Birch, retired Sex Therapist, understands a woman's aversion to cunnilingus and lays out a step-by-step approach to overcoming this irrational fear. An avoidance pattern that is long-term and deep-seated cannot be undone overnight, even after the woman realizes there is no reason to turn away her lover's oral approach. Time, patience and a good plan are required. If this is a problem in your sexual relationship, your can benefit from this professional sex advice. 
OVERCOMING THE AVOIDANCE OF CUNNILINGUS
This e-article contains a good plan and is available as a .pdf downloadable file or can be ordered as an e-mail attachment or by mail as a printed copy. The article alone costs only $1.00 as an e-mail attachment. Be aware that this article contains pictures of female genitals.
Buy the article in print and it will be mailed to you for only $2.00 and that includes First Class postage.
BUY BOTH e-ARTICLES AND SAVE Buy both e-articles for $1.75
Buy both articles in print and they will be mailed to you for only $3.75 and that includes First Class postage.
INTRODUCTION TO CUNNILINGUS
Women Share their Experience
These stories illustrate the fact that early anxiety and unfounded misgivings about cunnilingus are not uncommon, but each of these women eventually discovered that very special pleasure of a loving oral caress. These stories are fictious and the collection is not an account of an actual awareness activity. However, they do reflect the author's knowledge of sexuality and his interest in combining education with erotica.
This 15 page document is available as a .pdf attachment or can be received as a printed copy. Buy it as an e-article (.pdf file) and receive it as an e-mail attachment for only $2.00.
Buy the stories of 8 women as a printed copy, mailed by First Class mail, for $3.75 (postage included).
BUY ALL THREE e-ARTICLES . . . As attached 3 .pdf files - $3.75
. . . By mail as printed copies - $7.00
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