Definitions of Some Basic Words Related to Sex

sexual terms

Words are arranged in alphabetical order.
Simply click on the first letter of the word you want defined.

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Abortion - The surgical procedure to terminate a pregnancy in its early stages

AC/DC - Bisexual - Bi - attracted to both males and females - See Swing Both Ways

Adultery - Sexual intercourse between two people when one or both parties are married to someone else

Affair - Cheating - A love affair or sexual relationship that is illicit or secret

A-hole - Short for Ass hole, the butt hole, the anus

Amateur - This term was once applied to women who engaged in frequent sexual intercourse without pay, usually with several men. The term is now used in reference to women who are not professional models, but who pose nude for photos or web cams - Read an illustrated article on Amateurs and Digital Cameras See also Exhibitionist

Anal Eroticism - Fascination with erotic anal sensitivity in the anus or rectum

Anal Fetish - A sexual preoccupation with or preference for the anus or rectum

Anal Intercourse - The introduction of the penis or any object into the anus by another person for sexual stimulation- See the article on Anal Sex See Greek Love. Up the poop chute.

Analingus - Stimulation of the anal area with the tongue - Literally "licking the anus."
Andrin - The hormones produced by the male sex glands

Anus - The opening of the rectum - see Back Door

Aphrodisiac - Substance taken orally that increases sexual appetite (desire)

Arc of Erection - The angle at which the penis extends from the body when firm

Areola - The brownish or pinkish area of flesh immediately surrounding the nipple of the breasts

Around the World - The act of kissing the entire body from one end to the other as a prelude for other sexual activity, although often used to refer to licking around the anal opening.

Artificial Insemination - Impregnating artificially by injecting semen into the uterus by means of a syringe

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B & D - See Bondage and Discipline

Back Door - The anus or rectum - See also Dirt Track

Balls - The testicles, male gonads

Bang - To copulate, have intercourse

Beat Off - To manually masturbate the penis - jack off, pound off

Beaver - The female genitals - See also Shaved Beaver

Behind - The buttocks, ass

Bestiality - Sexual relations with animals - See also Zoophilia

Bi-sexual - An individual who views both genders as sexually attractive

Big O - Female orgasm - See the articles on Female orgasm

Bird Dog - A man how is hot for women - See also Tom Cat

Blast Off - To experience orgasms, usually the male ejaculation

Blowjob - The act of performing oral sex on a male - fellatio - find information on performing fellatio

Blue Balls - Pain in the testicles from lack of ejaculation after a period of high arousal - less commonly called "lover's nuts"

Bondage - The practice of sexual domination of a sado-masochist quality, including restraints, humiliation, punishment, torture etc.

Bondage and Discipline - Erotic bondage which emphasizes "training" or "breaking the will" of the submissive partner. B & D is usually a "game" that excites both the dominant and the submissive partner. It is less extreme than sadomasochistic behavior.

Bone or Boner - The erect penis, a hard on

Boobs - The female breasts

Bordello - A cat house - house of prostitution, a whore house

Bottom - The submissive partner in a B & D relationship. See also top and a href="switch">switch

Box - The vagina or genital area of a woman - see the article on Female Anatomy

Breast Fucking - The sliding of an erection between a woman's breasts, which she will often push together to allow for more friction.

Breasts - The two mounds of fatty tissue on a woman's chest, containing the milk-secreting, glandular organs. The human mammary gland. Also tits, boobs, honkers, headlights, jugs

Briar Patch - The pubes

Brothel Browning - To perform anal intercourse - corn holing

Buck Naked - Completely nude

Bum - The buttocks, the cheeks of the ass

Bunghole - The anus, opening to the rectum

Bush - Pubic hair of either sex especially if it's thick or coarse; often more associated with female pubes

Bush Dinner - Cunnilingus or a "Hair Pie"

Bust - Female breasts

Butch - A lesbian who is masculine in traits and appearance

Butt Plug - An anal sex toy - See the article on Anal Sex Toys

Buttocks - The rump, cheeks of the ass

Button - The clitoris, the "Joy Button"

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Cake - The vagina

Cake Eater - A cunnilinguist, one who eats pussy - see cunnophile

Cake Shop - A house of prostitution, whore house

Call Girl - A prostitute, usually one who comes to a hotel room or other on call assignment

Cane - The penis in a state of erection, a pole, a hard on

Canned Goods - A virgin

Canoe Inspector - A gynecologist - from the calling of the female genitals a canoe - the clitoris = "the little man in the canoe"

Carnal - Relating to physical and especially sexual thoughts and desires, usually used in religious writings

Casanova - An adventurous lover and seducer of women

Castration - Removal of or surgical procedures performed upon the male testicles (balls)

Cat House - A house of prostitution, whore house

Celibacy - The living of a life with no sexual relations, often as an act of committment to some religious principle

Cervix - The opening to the uterus or womb toward the far end of the vaginal canal

Cancroid - A small ulcer usually occurring on the genitals - very infectious

Cheeks - The fleshy portion of the buttocks, the buns

Cherry - The hymen in virgin women - to "bust a girl's cherry" is to have vaginal intercourse with a virgin - see Defloration - See also Hymen

Circle Jerk - a group of men masturbating in a circle, either masturbating each other or each masturbating himself

Circumcision - Surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis

Clap - Gonorrhea, a sexually transmitted desease

Cleavage - The valley between the female breasts

Climax - Orgasm

Clit - See Clitoris

Clitoral Hood - The skin that comes down over the clitoris, covering it partially or,on some women, completely. See the article on female sexual anatomy and the article that talks of clitoral adhessions

Clitoral Stimulation - Direct manipulation or rubbing of the clitoris using any means - "polishing the pearl"

Clitoridotomy - Female circumcision

Clitorectomy -  The removal of the clitoris

Clitoris - The principle organ of sexual sensation for the female - the woman's "Pleasure Bud"

Cock - The penis - one of many "street" terms

Cocksucker - One who performs oral sex on a male - but the name is often angrily used in a negative way for anyone.

Cock Teaser - One who excites a man without carrying on to actual sex relations, a "prick teaser" - an unfair label as it implies women are obligated to satify a man if he is aroused

Cohabit - To live, sleep and have sexual relations as a man and wife

Coitus - Sexual intercourse - See the article on Positions of Intercourse

Coitus interruptus - withdrawal of the penis from the vagina just before ejaculation

Come - To have an orgasm or reach a sexual climax - also cum

Come out of the closet - to openly acknowledge ones homosexuality.

Compulsive Masturbation - Not a very precise label, as the the frequency of masturbation varies and is an individual matter. However, the self-stimulation might actually be compulsive and "unstoppable" - Read an article on Compulsive Masturbation - See also Sexual Addiction

Conception - The uniting of a sperm and ovum (egg) after intercourse - impregnation

Concubine - A mistress

Condom - A prophylactic - A flexible sheath, usually made of thin rubber or latex, designed to cover the penis during sexual intercourse for contraceptive purposes or as a means of preventing sexually transmitted diseases

Contraceptive - A device, drug, or chemical agent that prevents conception

Coochie - Female genitals - also Coochy

Coochy - See Coochie

Cookie - The female or male genitalia

Coosie - Female genitals

Cop a Cherry - To copulate with a virgin

Cop a Feel - To fondle a person without necessarily continuing with other more explicit sexual activity, often used where there is no prior permission - see also Feel Up

Copulation - Sexual intercourse in a conventional manner when the male inserts his penis into a woman's vagina and thrusts

Corona - The sensitive rim of the head of the penis (glans penis) which joins with the shaft - See it here

Corn Hole - Anal intercourse

Cosset - To fondle and caress lovingly and with physical intimacy

Courtesan - A very high class of prostitute or kept woman

Cowper's Gland - The small gland that secretes the pre-ejaculate when a male is highly aroused - see the article on this

Crab Lice - Very small vermin which infest the pubic areas of human beings and are passed on to others usually through sexual contact

Cream - Semen ejaculated in a male orgasm

Cream Your Jeans - To ejaculate in one's pants - see Dry Fuck

Crotch - The genital area of the pelvis

Crud - Anything that is dirty and dried

Cruise - To look over perspective love partners

Cum - As a verb, the process of orgasm, but as a noun, the semen that is ejaculated by the male

Cunnilingus - Oral sex performed on the female genitals

Cunnophile - One who loves performing cunnilingus

Cunt - Female genitals - A derogatory designation for a woman, unless with mutual concent during hot sexual talk.

Cunt Lapper - One who practices cunnilingus - also a "muff diver"

Cyber Sex - Explicit sexual talk via e-mail or chatrooms, often accompanied with web cam "show and tell" and frequently ending in orgasm - Read an article on Cybersex

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Daisy Chain - A group sex activity in which several people link together so that everyone is stimulating someone and also being stimulated - often referred to as "closing the circle"

Debauchery - Negative term for overindulgence in sexual pleasures

Defile - To rape or otherwise violate a woman who is still a virgin

Defloration - To deflower - the act of ending a woman's virginity

Degenerate - A person whose abnormalities go way beyond the average actions of heterosexual or homosexual intercourse

Dermophiliac - A leather fetishist

Derriere - The backside or buttocks

Deviate - A sex pervert of any kind

Diaphragm- A contraceptive device consisting of a thin flexible disk, usually made of rubber that is designed to cover the uterine cervix to prevent the entry of sperm during sexual intercourse

Dick - The penis - cock, pecker, prick

Dildo - An artificial penis-shaped toy used for vaginal or anal penetration - See the articles on Sex Toys

Dirt Track - The anus and colon

Discipline -Punishment intended to correct or train used in masochist-sadist practices

Dishonorable Discharge - An act of masturbation by the male

Dominate - To be in control - See Dominatrix

Dominatrix - The dominatating female of a couple who are into bondage & discipline (B&D;)

Dong - The penis

Don Juan - A type of lover who enjoys feeling victory in seduction more than the sensual pleasure

Douche - The process of internally washing the vagina canal

Drag - The wearing of clothing of the opposite sex - "Going in drag"

Drag Queen - A female impersonator

Dry Fuck or Dry Run - The act of rubbing pelvises with a partner while fully clothed, often resulting in an orgasm

Dusters - The testicles

Dyspareunia - Sexual pain, usually refering to a woman's painful intercourse - See the article on Sexual Pain - Also see Vaginismus

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ED - See Erectile Dysfunction

Effeminate - Feminine in appearance and/or in actions

Ejaculation - The forceful physical discharge of semen through the urethra of the penis at the moment of subjective experience of orgasm in neurologically-intact males. See Female Ejaculation

<name="ED">Erectile Dysfunction - The inability to get or to maintain a firm erection - See the article on Erectile Dysfunction - See also Impotency

Erection - The firm and enlarged condition of a body organ or part when the erectile tissue surrounding it becomes filled with blood, as in the aroused penis or clitoris

Erogenous - Responsive or sensitive to sexual stimulation that stirs a sexual response

Erogenous Zones - The sexually responsive areas of the body

Eros - The Greek god of love

Erotic - Tending to arouse sexual desire or concerning sexual love

Exhibitionist - One who likes to display his or her body in the nude, particularly the genitals, in public, before a group, and more recently on the Internet

Exotic - Often referring to a stripper or dancer who does a strip tease or other suggestive interpretive dance in a minimum of costume or one fitted to contours of the body (See our DVDs on Exotic Dance)

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Family Jewels - The male testicles

Fanny - The buttocks [USA] The Vagina [UK]

Feel Up - To manipulate female's erogenous areas while embracing or petting

Fellatio - Oral stimulation of the penis by licking it or taking it into the mouth, usually sucking on it while moving the head up and down and at times continuing to the point of the male ejaculating - Find information on Performing Fellatio

Fellator - A person who performs fellatio

Fellatrix - The female fellator

Female Domination - Sex activities in which the female partner is in control

Female Ejaculation - When a woman expels fluid from her urethral opening while experiencing her orgasm - Find information on Female Ejaculation"

Fetish - Sexual devotion to a particular object or part of the body. This may be any portion of the body or some inanimate thing such as a piece of clothing

Finger - To play with a female's genitals with the fingers

Finger fuck - To thrust a finger or fingers into a woman's vagina

Flaccid - The state of a limp or soft penis

Flagellation - The finding of sexual satisfaction from whipping or being whipped

Flang - The corona of the penis

Flash - To quickly explose oneself, usually to the suprise of an unsuspecting audience - a "flasher"

Flesh Peddler - A pimp, one who solicits for a prostitute (or a promiscuous male or female amateur)

Fleshpot - A "red light district" or general area where prostitutes congregate to solicit customers

Fly Jockey - A man who copulates through the fly of his pants without removing his trousers

Fool Around - To engage in sexual foreplay

For Play - Just fooling around for the sheer fun of it

Foreplay - The love play leading up to intercourse - See the article on Foreplay

Foursome - Any combination of adults intent on sexual activities. See also "a href="#swing">Swing
Foreskin - The loose fold of skin that covers the glans (head) of the penis at birth. See the article on smegma

Fornication - Sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other

Fraternize - To keep intimate company with a person, often used when the two are not of equal status

Freebie - Sexual conquest without monetary cost

Free Show - A quick peek at a girl's thighs or breasts as she adjusts a stocking or bra strap, crosses her legs etc. - See Flash

French - To perform oral sex

French Kiss - To kiss passionately with the lips parted and tongues exploring the partner's mouth

Frenulum - Any flap of skin, like the frenulum on the penis or the flap of skin under the clitoris. See Frenum

Frenum - the sensitive area of skin and frenulum on the underside of the penis where the coronal rim meets - Go here to see it

Frig - To finger the female genitalia - the word is often used also in place of "fuck"

Frottage - The practice of rubbing up against someone for sexual gratification usually without their permission, often in crowded places

Fuck - The act of intercourse. Used for both vaginal fucking and anal fucking

Fur - pubes of the vagina

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G Spot/G-Spot - the sensitive area of erectile tissue just in and up after vaginal penetration - See the G Spot Article

Gang Bang - A party or orgy in which two or more males takes turns having intercourse with the same woman

Gay - Referring to either a male or female homosexual

Gender - Referring to male or female identity

Genitalia - The surface organs of reproduction on both the male and the female

Genitals - See Genitalia

Get It Up - To achieve an erect penis

Get Your Rocks Off - Males achieving orgasm

Giggle Stick - The penis

Gigolo - A man who profits from his association with women. This type is usually very good looking and has plenty of sex appeal

Give Head - To perform oral sex on a male - See Fellatio

Glans Clitorides - The head of the clitoris

Glans Penis - The head of the penis - Go here to see one

Globes - The female breasts

Glory Hole - A hole, which has been cut in the wall of a public toilet stall to another adjoining stall and used by homosexuals to observe or interact with someone else

Gobbler - A person who enjoys oral sex

Go Down/Going Down - To perform oral sex on a person's genitals

Golden Shower - A method of "perverted" gratification of a sexual desire attained by urinating on your partner or being urinated upon

Gonads - The testicles or the ovaries, which are primary sex glands in the male and female for producing future generations

Gonga - The anus

Gonorrhea - A sexually transmitted disease caused by gonococcal bacteria that affects the mucous membrane chiefly of the genital and urinary tracts and is characterized by an acute purulent discharge and painful or difficult urination, though women often have no symptoms

Goolies - The testicles

Goose - To playfully tickle someone from behind usually aiming for the rear end

Grapefruits - Extremely large female breasts

Greek Love - Anal intercourse

Grinder - A stripper or other entertainer bumping her pelvis

Group Masturbation - Three or more persons who practice masturbation on each other or themselves in a group party

Group Sex - An exhibition or orgy among couples who engage in either simple acts of copulation or perverted sexual encounters with other couples or singles taking turns at both performing and watching the other performers

G-string - A small material covering only the female pubic area, which is secured by thin straps around the hips

Gun - The penis

Gushing - See Female Ejaculation

Gynecologist - A physician specializing in the care and treatment of the female genitalia and reproductive tract

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Hair Pie - The female genitals as an object of cunnilingus

Hammer - The penis

Hand Job - The manual masturbation (jacking off) of a man's penis

Hard On - A hard penile erection

Hard Up - The term is primarily used by men and refering to feelings of horniness and sexual frustration due to a lack of a recent sex encounter

Harem - A collection of lovers, which are available to be used by one person

Harlot - A prostitute, a whore

Head - Oral sex. See Cunnilingus and Fellatio

Headlights - Large female breasts

Hedonism - A way of life in which one gratifies all sexual and sensual desires of the individual without moral restraint

Hermaphrodite - A person who is born with both male and female genitals although at least one set is almost always incompletely developed

Hershey Highway - The rectum

Heterosexual - A person who is attracted emotionally and sexually only to members of the opposite sex

Homo - A homosexual

Homosexual - One with an emotional and sexual attraction to members of his or her own gender

Hooker - A prostitute - See Whore

Horizontal exercise - Intercourse, not prone to argue

Horny - Passionate and feeling the need for sexual relief

Horse Around - To play, cuddle, fondle and pet up to the point of intercourse, heavy petting

Hot - An indication of the mental and physical temperature during moments of great passion and desire

Hung - Referring to size of the male genitalia and used particularly to denote a penis size of immense proportions, well endowed

Hustle - Seeking customers by a prostitute, but also meaning to actively solicit favors (sexual or otherwise) from others

Hymen - The fold of membrane that partly covers the orifice (opening) of the virgin vagina in childhood and adolescence, usually broken during the first act of insertion, with a penis, finger, tampon, or during a medical exam. Hymens may be partially torn during any vigorious physical activity.

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Immoral - Unlawful or improper relations of a sexual nature

Impotency - Incapable of intercourse as associated with the male who is incapable of achieving an erection due to age, stress, physical or psychological problems - See also Erectile Dysfunction

Impregnation - The uniting of the male semen with the female ovum and onset of pregnancy

Incest - Sexual relations between members of an immediate family other than the husband and wife

Indecent - Often refers to exposing one's genital parts in public

Intercourse - The Sexual joining together of two partners in the act of copulation - To Fuck - See the article on Positions of Intercourse

Iron - A male prostitute

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Jack Off - Male act of masturbation

Jerk Off - To perform masturbation of the penis

Jerk The Snake - To perform masturbation of the penis

Jism - Semen

Joy Stick - The penis

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Kama - Great sexual passion (Hindu love god) - the word means "love" and "lust"

Kama Sutra - A 4th-century Hindu manual on love and sex - See a modern version of the Kama Sutra

Keister - the buttocks

Kicks - Sexual Thrills

Kinky - Sexually playful, usually thought of as forbidden, abnormal or perverse

Knob - The penis

Knobs - The female breasts

Knockers - The female breasts, especially if large and sexually stimulating in appearance

Knock Up - To impregnate, make pregnant

Knot - The corona of the penis

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Labia Majora - The large outer lips that mark the entrance to the vagina - See the article and illustrations of Female Sexual Anatomy - See also the word Vulva

Labia Minora - The smaller, inner lips at the entrance to the vagina which are formed just below the labia majora

Lap It - To perform oral sex on the female

Lavender Boy - A male homosexual

Lay - The act of copulation or other intercourse

Lesbian - A female homosexual

Lesbo - A lesbian, often used in a derogatory way

Libido - Sexual need, hunger or appetite

Lick - To perform oral sex on a female

Lips - 1.The fleshy folds which form the opening of the mouth on the human face and are secondary erogenous zone 2. The labia majora and labia minora of the female vulva

Little Brother - The penis

Little Sister - The vagina

Load - The product of a single ejaculation

Lollipop - The vagina or penis as an object of oral intercourse

Lust - Sexual desire or passion, particularly when odd a heightened or extreme nature

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Madam - The proprietress or manager of a house of prostitution (whore house)

Mammae or Mammary Glands - The breasts, which are capable of producing and secreting milk

Mammary Intercourse - Intercourse performed by penile contact with the breasts of the lover partner. See Breast Fucking

Manual Exercises - Masturbation

Masochism - Desire for maltreatment as a means of sexual gratification

Masturbation - The practice of arriving at orgasm through manual manipulation or other frictional contact with the genitalia without copulation

Matinee - An afternoon session of copulation or other love making - An "Afternoon Delight"

Meat - The penis

Melons - The female breasts

Ménage à Trois - A threesome - See also Threesome

Menopause - The change of life in women during which menstruation ceases and other mental and physical changes may occur

Menstruation - A periodic vaginal flow of bloody mass and liquid occurring about once a month and lasting 3-5 days which carries out with it the unfertilized ovum from the uterus. It is immediately after the period that the female is normally the most receptive to sexual activity

Mess Around - To cheat sexually on one's spouse or love partner. 2.To engage in foreplay short of actual intercourse

Middle Leg - The penis

Misfire - Accidental ejaculation during love play prior to intercourse

Mons Veneris - Pubic mound - See also the word Vulva

Mowed Lawn - Descriptive of the vagina when the pubic mound is shaved

Muff Diver - One who performed oral sex on the female

Muffins - Small breasts

Multiple Climax - A series of several successive orgasms experienced by many females during a single act of coitus

Mutual Masturbation - Group masturbation whereby two or more people of the same or different sexes either masturbate themselves or each other in concert and attempt to achieve orgasm at the same time

Mysophilia - The love of things filthy and unclean

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Narcissism - Pleasure or desire stimulated by one's own body

Nates - The buttocks

Naughty - Indecent; improper

Neck - To kiss while embracing

Necrophilia - Sexual love of the dead including actual intercourse with corpses

Ninnies - The female breasts

Nipples - The small projection near the center of the mammary gland containing the outlets of the milk ducts through which young mammals obtain milk from the adult female; a teat

Nocturnal Emission - See wet dream

Nookie - Copulation

Nubbies - Female breasts

Nude - A naked person

Nymphomaniac - An old term for a female with excessive and insatiable desire for careless sexual activity (nympho) - should not be confused with a sexually active woman with a high level of desire

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Obscene - Offensive to the average person

Old Dirt Road - The anus/rectum

Old Fashioned Way - Missionary position

One Night Stand - A one time sexual affair between two people that will probably never see each other again

Oral Contraceptive - A pill, typically containing estrogen or progesterone that inhibits ovulation and thereby prevents conception. Also called birth control pill

Oral Sex - Sexual intercourse where the mouth of one sex partner is used in connection with the genitalia of the other to produce orgasm

Orgasm - The end-pleasure or climax - Read our articles on Orgasm

Orgy - A private party where uninhibited group sex is practiced

Ovaries - The reproductive glands in the female located within the pelvic cavity near the uterus, which produce the ovum or egg, which is fertilized by the male sperm during impregnation

Ovum - The female egg of reproduction, which is fertilized by the male semen during copulation

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Pedophilia - Erotic love for a child by an adult

Pair - The female breasts

Pansy - An obvious male homosexual

Park - To park in a car at a secluded spot for the purpose of necking or actual intercourse

Parlor House - A house of prostitution

Passion - Sexual desire or excitement

Passive - Descriptive of the person who takes the feminine or passive role in a sexual act or relationship

PC Muscles - Stands for the pubococcygeus muscles, the sling of muscles between the legs of men and women which attach to the pubic bone in front and the tail bone in back - These are the muscles that contract during orgasm and can be strengthened by doing the
Kegel Exercises

Pecker - The penis

Peep Show - Any performance by scantily attired girls or strippers

Peeping Tom - A voyeur who specializes in watching women undress from an unobserved spot

Pencil - A very small penis, needle dick

Penilinctus - Oral sex on the penis - See "a href="#fellatio">Fellatio

Penis - The primary sex organ of the male. The shaft like projection from the pit of the pelvis which is used in sexual intercourse. Generally a soft muscle when relaxed, the penis hardens during sexual stimulation as the blood rushes to the organ causing it to become erect

Penis Erectus - The condition of the penis at high sexual excitement

Penis Promissus - A penis which is not aroused

Perineum - The surface region at the base of the buttocks between the genitalia and the anus

Period - Menstruation; the period of the menstrual flow in the female

Perversion - A condition or sexual pathology in a person whereby stimuli and satisfaction are obtained only by abnormal means rather than usual sexual satisfaction during intercourse

Pervert - sexual deviate of any type

Pet - To Arouse sexually by fondling and kissing

Phallus - An artificial penis

Pick-Up - A stranger or chance acquaintance whom one meets at a bar or other public place and who is effortlessly persuaded to go somewhere for sex relations or other companionship

Pig Sticker - One who engages in anal intercourse

Pillars to the Temple - The female legs

Pimp - A procurer or one who seeks out customers for one or more prostitutes who pay him a percentage

Piston - The penis

Pit Job - A fetishistic and perverted sex act in which the armpit of the partner in the passive role is used as an object of intercourse for the penis or tongue

Play With - To Masturbate or merely excite the sexual organs
Pocket Pool - Secret masturbation or excitement of the genitals by fondling them while the hand is in the pocket of the trousers

Pole - The penis

Polyandry - The practice of women having more than one husband or lover at the same time

Poon Tang - Copulation or other intercourse using the female as a sex object

Pornography - Erotic works done in an obscene manner beyond the acceptance or the tastes of the society in which they appear

Posterior - The buttocks

Prepuce - The foreskin which covers the glans penis and is usually removed in infancy by circumcision.

Pretty Boy - An effeminate male

Prick - One of the oldest and most popular slang expressions for the male penis

Privates - The genitals

Prophylactic - A rubber sheath contraceptive worn over the penis during copulation to prevent contraction of venereal disease, impregnation or both

Proposition - To ask subtly or in plain words that a person engage in sexual activity

Prostate - The all-important gland about the base of the urethra which ejects the semen through and out of the penis

Prostitute - A person who is given over to indiscriminate sexual practices especially for money

Protection - Contraception of any sort

Puberty - The age at which sexual maturity is reached

Pubes - The pubic hair

Pubic - The front portion of the lower pelvic structure in humans; the bones of the lower belly and crotch

Pulse - The penis when it has an erection and tends to throb like a pulse beat

Pussy - The vagina

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Queer - A homosexual often used in a derogatory manner

Quickie - A brief fast act of copulation or other intercourse - see also Wham-Bam

Quiff - The vagina

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Rag - A sanitary napkin worn by the female during menstruation

Rape - Forcible copulation or other intercourse with an individual

Ream - To apply the tongue to the anus, inserting the tip and withdrawing it in a series thrusts - See also Rimming

Rear - The buttocks or posterior of a human being

Rectum - The chamber between the end of the large intestine, extending from the sigmoid colon to the anal canal.

Red Hot - Referring to extreme sexual desire or passion

Red Light District - The area of a town where prostitutes solicit customers and do business

Rimming Licking and running the tongue around the anal opening (sphincter) - See also Analingus

Rod - An especially large penis

Rubber - A prophylactic, condom

Rug - Female pubic area

Rump - The buttocks

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S-M - See
Sadinasochistic Disorder

Sadism - Sexual pleasure and usually orgasm achieved by cruelty and torture to the sex object

Sadist - A sexual pervert who derives his sexual satisfaction and pleasure from causing of physical and mental anguish in another

Sadomasochistic Disorder - A relationship in which one person derives sexual pleasure from inflicting pain, while the other is sexually excited by experiencing that discomfort. This can often be intense and is considered more of a psychosexual disorder than is bondage and discipline

Save it - To keep one's virginity for the marriage bed when one has first intercourse with her husband

Scents Erotic - Certain scents on the female, which have strong erotic effect on some men

Scopophilia - the practice of voyeurism; pleasure derived from looking

Score - To have copulation or other intercourse with a partner

Scratch - The female vagina

Screw - The act of copulation

Scrotum - The bag or pouch located directly beneath the penis that holds the testicles

Scrud - Any venereal disease

Séance à Trois - An orgy of three people - See also Mènage à Trois

Secondary Sex Characteristics - All other erogenous zones other than the primary male and female organs

Seduce - To persuade someone other than one's own spouse to engage in an act of sex without physically forcing the party to do so

Seducer - Any person who induces another person to have sex with them

Self Abuse - Masturbation

Semen - The male sperm or fluid of reproduction, which fertilizes the female ovum when discharged into the vagina during ejaculation

Semenuria - The presence of semen in the urine

Semination - Intromission of semen in the urine

Sensualism - A devotion or obsession with the pleasures of the senses

Sensuous - Descriptive of a high degree of susceptibility of all sexual sensations

Session - Sexual intercourse of various kinds

Sex - Anything connected with the urge for sexual gratification 2.gender

Sex Appeal - That which appeals to the erotic or sexual senses that will arouse the libido through the senses

Sex Object - Any person, part of a person, or thing which may excite a person's senses until and through the point of sexual orgasm.

Sex Therapy - A mental health specialty which involves the diagnosis and treatment of sexual problems and concerns, often in consultation with a physician who can detect and medicate associated physical factors

Sexology - The science of study dealing with all aspects of sex and sexual behavior

Sexologist - A person specializing in sexology

Sexual - Anything pertaining to sex or the nature of sex

Sexual Act - Sexual Intercourse or copulation

Sexual Addiction - A term applied by some for compulsive sexual behavior - Read the article on Sexual Compulsion and Addiction

Sexual Intercourse - Copulation or any other end purpose sex relations between two people with orgasm intended

Sexual Organs - The generative organs; the testicles and penis in a man, ovaries, uterus, vagina and vulva in the female

Sexual Orgasm - The highest point or climax during intercourse

Sexual Promiscuity - Having sex relations with a number of people without particular choice and without as a rule the element of love

Sexual Tension - The tension produced by the sex urge and by the non-satisfaction of the sexual desire

Sexually Transmitted Diseases - A disease arising through contagion while having intercourse and which infects the area in or about the genitalia

Sexuality - The collective difference which in individuals make one male and another female

Sexy - Possessing sex appeal

Shack Up - To enter into a liaison with a love partner and live with this person on a fairly regular basis

Shag - An act of copulation

Simultaneous Climax - A concurrent orgasm experienced both in the clitoris and vaginal canal by the female during coitus

Sixty-Nine - Oral sex performed by two people simultaneously and on each other

Sixty-Six - Anal Intercourse

Sizzler - Someone or something, which is sexually exciting

Split Beaver - A full views of the female vulva with the legs wide open

Slut - A prostitute of the lowest kind, although usually used as a derogatory name for any sexually active woman

Smegma - The secretion that collects under the male foreskin and the female clitoral hood. Learn more.

Smooch - To kiss and sexually excite another person with kissing

Smut - Indecent or lewd language or conversation such as is used in the telling of obscene stories

Snake - The penis

Snake Pit - The vagina

Snatch - The vulva

Snow Job - Blow Job

Soak - To delay withdrawal of the male member after copulation has resulted in the desired orgasm

Sodomy - Sexual intercourse in any of several perverted or abnormal ways in the legal sense

Spanish Fly - A crystalline powder made from the dried blister beetle of the Iberian Peninsula, and used throughout recorded history as a sexual stimulant

Sperm - A single fertilized cell or seed, which flows from the male in abundance during ejaculation

Square - A person who is morally opposed to free love or sexual intercourse outside the bonds of marriage

Stacked - Having an extremely voluptuous female body, with large and well defined breasts, slim waist, curvaceous hips and buttocks; streamlined and possessing extreme sex appeal for the male

Stag - To attend a party or any function without a female, either alone or in the company of other males

Stallion - A male who is considered a very accomplished lover by many females

STDs - Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Sterile - Descriptive of a condition in the male or female when they are unable to produce effective semen or ovum to be fertilized

Sterilization - The process either medically or natural which renders one incapable of producing children

Stiff - The erect penis

Straight - A person who is not a homosexual

Streetwalker - A prostitute

Stripper - A dancer or performer who undresses and moves in a sexually suggestive fashion in front of an audience and specializes in exciting the members of the crowd

Strip Tease - A sensuous and arousing dance in which the performer teasingly removes her clothing piece by piece until almost or totally naked

Stud - A man or boy who is particularly in demand for sexual intercourse and is assumed to possess a tremendous penis

Suck - To perform oral sex particularly on males

Sugar Daddy - A man who is usually middle aged or elderly who keeps and provides a much younger girl with expensive presents and the necessities of life in return for companionship, which is often sexual in nature

Sultry - Hot with passion

Supine Position - Missionary position

Suppository - A soft jelly substance which dissolves when inserted into the vagina prior to coitus and used for the purpose of contraception

Swap Spit - French Kiss

Sweet Mama - A very accomplished and attentive female love partner

Sweet Papa - A very accomplished and attentive male love partner

Switch - Some one who can play the dominate (top) or the submissive (bottom) role in a B & D relationship.

Swing Both Ways - A term to indicate a person who can enjoy sex in both a heterosexual as well as homosexual fashion

Swinger - any person, male or female, who enjoys experimentation of sexual acts outside the bonds of his or her primary relationship. See the information on Swinging

Swinging - See Swinger, Threesome, Foursome
Switch - To practice wife swapping

Syphilis - A chronic infectious disease caused by a spirochete (Treponema pallidum), either transmitted by direct contact, usually in sexual intercourse, or passed from mother to child in the uterus, and progressing through three stages characterized respectively by local formation of chancres, ulcerous skin eruptions, and systemic infection leading to general paresis.

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Teaser - A person ordinarily a female who wears suggestive clothing imparts a voluptuous personality and allows a certain amount of liberties with a potential sex partner but will not submit to actual intercourse

Testes - The testicles

Threesome - Three people in a sexual encounter, could be two women and a man or two men and a woman - See also Mènage à: Trois

Thrill - Sexual excitement or orgasm

Tits - The female breasts

Tit Fuck - Sliding the man's erection between the breasts of the woman

Titty Orgy - Mammary intercourse i.e. Tit fucking

Tom Cat - A man who pursues women for sexual purposes

Tongue - To perform oral intercourse on a person, licking their body

Top - The dominate partner in a B &D; relationship. See also bottom and switch

Tramp - A prostitute, more specifically a slut

Transvestite - A male who always dresses like a woman

Threesome - Two males and a female (MFM) or two females and one male (FMF). Also see swing"
Trick - A sexual encounter with a prostitue - the whore "turns a trick"

Twat - The vagina or female crotch - See Vulva

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Umbilicus - The navel

Upper Deck - The breast of the female

Uterus - The womb, located to the rear of the vaginal canal where the bay is carried


Vagina - The passage leading from the opening of the vulva to the cervix of the uterus in female mammals (2) Often used to inaccurately denote the entire female genitalia - See

Vaginismus - The painful condition in which the muscles around the opening of the vagina involuntarily contract, making penetration difficult or impossible. See the article on Vaginismus and Sexual Pain - See also Dyspareunia

Vamp - A sexually aggressive female

V.D. - Venereal diseases

Venereal Diseases - A disease arising through contagion while having intercourse and which infects the area in or about the genitalia

Voluptuous - Appealing strongly to the sexual senses

Voyeur - A person who attains sexual satisfaction from watching those attractive to him undress or engage in intercourse with others

Vulgar - Obscene

Vulva - The surface portion of the female genitals including the mons veneris, the clitors and vaginal opening

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Wang - The penis

Weenie - The penis

Wet Dream - A sexually arousing dream which results in involuntary secretions of orgasmic juices while asleep - a nocturnal emission

Wham-Bam - Copulation accomplished quickly with little or no foreplay

Whore - A prostitute, usually with a derogatory meaning

Wife Swapping - The practice of sharing wives for sexual purposes

Witch - A bitchy or otherwise disagreeable female

Work Up - To Create passion in someone - to turn them on

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X - the vagina (X marks the spot)


Yang - The penis


Zoophilia - A psychosexual disorder in which animals are the primary focus of sexual attraction and used consistantly for sexual excitement and gratification. Also see Bestiality

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