SEXAND THE AGING MALE:
Understanding and Coping with Change
To be forewarned is to be forearmed!
For most men, somewhere between the age of 45 and 55, inevitable changes being what will eventually affect their level of desire, their ability to get and maintain good erections, and their capacity for frequent and reliably ejaculations. If a man knows in advance what is typical of aging males, he is better able to understand his own changes, to put them in the perspective of his age group, and to develop strategies to best cope with the tricks his mind and body will begin to play.
This short book (only a little over 100 pages) looks at male sexual development and sexual response, putting the aging factor in the context of an ongoing process of growth and maturity. The author, Dr. Birch, is himself an aging male and writes with humor, wisdom and personal insight that reflects his 30 plus years of experience as a sex therapist and his belief that sex should always be fun. This book mentions all the expensive props, pumps, potions, and pills medical science has to offer, but focus on the ways a man can, for a lifetime, relate naturally and sensually in an intimate and loving relationship.
This book is for men who want to make love, not those who are only looking for a stiff erection. The suggestions offered are about creating and maintaining intimacy, not about discovering 101 positions of intercourse. This books says that every man can remain sexual until the day he dies if he is willing to broaden his concept of physical and emotional intimacy to also include loving, sensual and playful interactions.
Dr. Birch tells men what to expect, how to cope, and how to make the best of the inevitable changes.
"Sex and the Aging Male is filled with practical advice for men who need to know that healthy sexual function is not just for the young."
In the Foreword to this book, Michael Brickey, Ph.D., ABPP, asks," What if you had a wise older friend who had more than thirty years of clinical experience as a sex therapist and who enjoyed sharing what he had learned?" He then answers, "It's not too good to be true, for the accumulated knowledge is right here in Sex and the Aging Male." Dr. Brickey, himself the author of a book titled Defy Aging, informs readers that "Dr. Birch is painfully realistic at times, but guides us with a gentle, caring touch. You will feel his love of people and sense the joy he finds in helping others discover a full and rewarding experience of their sexuality."
There are three versions to this book. Buy the 100 page spiral bound version for $10.95 plus postage and handling,
. . . or the expanded 125 page paperback version for $12.95 plus postage and handling (which is $2.00 off the suggested retail price).
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Written by retired Sex Therapist
Mary Grace grew up in a religiously conservative family, married as a virgin and never enjoyed sex, but in later life and shortly before her husband died, she turned on, discovered orgasm and at age 70 is ready to roll. Along comes 72 year old Nick, a retire teacher turned poet. In this 90+ page eBook you will learn of this naive grandmother's new discoveries and of the sexual secrets a retired teacher is eager to teach.
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
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As a woman ages, even when excited she will not lubricate as well as she did when she was younger. Therefore, sexual play can become uncomfortable and intercourse painful if she is dry. If needed, be sure to use a safe, water-based and water-soluble artificial lubricant, such as ASTROGLIDE. Check out our prices on this favorite product that is second only to nature.
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If you find any price on the Internet that is lower than the price I charge for a book or product, let me know and I will better it. I promise!
-- Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
BETTER THAN I EVER EXPECTED
Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty, by Joan Price
Boomer women aren't going to roll over and play asexual after sixty. We're the Love Generation--surely we canít be expected to shut the gates once we enter the Golden Age!
Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty by Joan Price (Seal Press, 2006) is an upbeat, frank, woman-to-woman friendly book that acknowledges the challenges and celebrates the delights of older-life sexuality.
Yes, there are challenges to sex after sixty, but there are also creative solutions. There's nothing hotter than sex between people who know their own bodies, are crazy about each other, relish taking lots of time, and honor both the physicality and the spirituality of sex. "I just don't think people can get there without a whole lot of life experience," writes Joan Price. "We're redefining this aging stuff."
There are plenty of books and magazine articles filled with doom and gloom about midlife and older sexuality, how our tissues wither along with our libidos, and we might as well give it up. That isn't this book. Here older women reveal--in their own words--how they successfully use their personal power, the joy and intimacy of their relationships, and useful tools of all sorts--from sex toys to humor--to experience terrific and satisfying sex.
Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty combines memoir with candid comments and tales from lively, earthy women who aren't afraid to tell, along with helpful tips from experts for staying sexy through the decades.
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From a reader:
Dear Dr. Birch,
I'm writing to thank you for the on-line article "Tips on Performing Fellatio." My husband and I are in our 70s (he, 3 months short of age 80.) Our sexual life has certainly faded over the last several years, but I recently thought we should try to find a way to resurrect it. He believed he was no longer able to climax and that he would talk to his doctor about Viagra if I wished him to. I felt I could be happy with whatever he was able to perform. Yesterday I read your article, and believed I could follow your tips, especially those regarding sensitivity of the frenulum.
After 45 minutes of intimate lovemaking, his erection was still soft. We decided to go back to sleep for an hour. As we were getting up from bed I decided to stroke his penis for a short while. He suddenly suggested a change of body positions; in less than two minutes he had a secure erection and then an ejaculation; I was so pleased that he had this wonderful pleasure. We were both so happy, and I loved the procedure that you outlined to cause this happiness for him.
Perhaps now we will forget about Viagra, as well as the many massage creams & lotions that are touted on the internet.
Thank you so much; I am so glad I found your article.
Sincerely, Theresa (age 73)
Go here for a male masturbation DVD burned from an aging man's home video. This amateur production has an interesting origin, having started from the letter of a frustrated middle-aged woman. The DVD is low cost and is offered for a mature woman's "show and tell" fantasy.
The DVD runs 20 minutes, with this sensual man demonstrating his style of masturbation from beginning to ecstasy. In the process he shares his thoughts and feelings. This is a no-frills, low-cost production that will appeal to women who are tired of young studs with massive erections . . . or at least want some variety to satisfy their visual curiosity.
He talks of his sexuality and the sexual consequences of his aging.
The language and sexual encounters are explicit, and the passion is ageless!
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THE SELECTION OF DVDS ON SEX AND AGING INCLUDES:
- THE COUPLES GUIDE TO GREAT SEX OVER 40 - Vol. 1 & 2
- GREAT SEX OVER 50 FOR MEN AND WOMEN
- SEX: A LIFELONG PLEASURE - vol. 1, 2 & 3
- AGELESS DESIRE
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